<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1609146750739524964</id><updated>2011-12-11T17:33:06.505-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Friends - Quakers - Greater Cincinnati Ohio</title><subtitle type='html'>Gateway to Quakerism in Cincinnati, Ohio, and Northern Kentucky (USA)</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://quakersincincinnati.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1609146750739524964/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://quakersincincinnati.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Friends (Quakers) - Cincinnati Metro Area</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12364604443866917434</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fcwBDbX-11M/TIBeYMNLIEI/AAAAAAAAAGw/LHtS2XtJzMw/S220/25394_10150158643520230_855560229_12306466_6400422_s.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1609146750739524964.post-3494751452667498662</id><published>2010-06-21T05:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-12-11T17:33:06.518-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Three Greater Cincinnati Friends Meetings</title><content type='html'>&lt;h2 class="title"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style=" font-weight: normal;  color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 18px; font-family:'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"&gt;&lt;h2 class="title"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 24px; "&gt;Three Greater Cincinnati Friends Meetings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;  &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Visit &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;a local Quaker meeting for worship &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;any First Day (Sunday).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;You are always welcome! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;There are three local Quaker congregations&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; (also called monthly meetings or Friends churches) in the metropolitan area of Cincinnati, Ohio. Several others are located in rural communities and small towns nearby.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);"&gt;The best way to learn about Quakerism is to visit a Quaker meeting and talk to real, live Quakers!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For directions to the three meetings, worship time, and contact information, click on the links in the sidebar or see below:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="l" href="http://www.cincinnatifriends.org/" title="Cincinnati Friends Meeting" onmousedown="return clk(this.href,'','','res','3','')"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;Cincinnati Friends Meeting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cincinnatifriends.org/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;www.cincinnatifriends.org&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;8075 Keller Rd, Cincinnati - (513) 791-0788&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="fl" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?hl=en&amp;amp;um=1&amp;amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;amp;q=Quaker+church&amp;amp;near=Cincinnati,+OH&amp;amp;fb=1&amp;amp;view=text&amp;amp;latlng=39207534,-84352642,11839646299891621619&amp;amp;sa=X&amp;amp;oi=local_result&amp;amp;resnum=3&amp;amp;ct=result"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Directions and more »&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Pastoral Meeting * (semi-programmed worship)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;Worship 11:00 am&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mary Ellen Krisher, Presiding Clerk&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Donne Hayden, Pastoral Minister&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(513) 791-0788&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Located near Kenwood in Indian Hill&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Directions:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I-71 to Montgomery Rd exit #12, turn east (away from malls), go past light at Galbraith, and turn right on Keller Rd. Meetinghouse will be located on the right, after about 7/10 mile.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Regular activities:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sunday School 9:45 am before worship&lt;br /&gt;Young Friends for Teens (grades 6-12), hosted by Cincinnati Friends, open to all area Quakers. Pizza and games on First Fridays of each month, with other activities.&lt;br /&gt;Contact the meeting office for more information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.communityfriendsmeeting.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"&gt;Community Friends Meeting &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.communityfriendsmeeting.com/"&gt;www.CommunityFriendsMeeting.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"&gt;3960 Winding Way, Cincinnati - (513) 861-4353&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="fl" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?hl=en&amp;amp;um=1&amp;amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;amp;q=Quaker+church&amp;amp;near=Cincinnati,+OH&amp;amp;fb=1&amp;amp;view=text&amp;amp;latlng=39153379,-84476454,17873252995809852448&amp;amp;sa=X&amp;amp;oi=local_result&amp;amp;resnum=1&amp;amp;ct=result"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Directions and more »&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Non-Pastoral Meeting * (silent, unprogrammed worship)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"&gt;Worship 10:00 am&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Doug Burks, Presiding Clerk&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Located near Xavier University in North Avondale&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Directions From I-71 South:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take the Dana Ave. exit&lt;br /&gt;Turn right (west) onto Dana&lt;br /&gt;Cross Montgomery Rd. - Pass Xavier University&lt;br /&gt;Cross Victory Parkway, continue up hill&lt;br /&gt;Turn right onto Winding Way&lt;br /&gt;The Meetinghouse is on the right,&lt;br /&gt;between Lenox &amp;amp;&lt;br /&gt;Redway Ave. at 2960 Winding Way&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Regular activities:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Children's First Day School begins at 10:15 AM&lt;br /&gt;(Children sit with adults for the first 15 minutes of worship.)&lt;br /&gt;Teens meet every other First Day during worship.&lt;br /&gt;On first First Days (ie, first Sunday) of each month&lt;br /&gt;we have a carry-in lunch and committee meetings after worship.&lt;br /&gt;On the remaining First Days there is a Second Hour adult discussion after worship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="l" href="http://www.easternhillsfriends.org/" title="Eastern Hills Friends Meeting" onmousedown="return clk(this.href,'','','res','2','')"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;Eastern Hills Friends Meeting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.easternhillsfriends.org/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;www.easternhillsfriends.org&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;1671 Nagel Rd, Cincinnati - (513) 474-9670&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="fl" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?hl=en&amp;amp;um=1&amp;amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;amp;q=Quaker+church&amp;amp;near=Cincinnati,+OH&amp;amp;fb=1&amp;amp;view=text&amp;amp;latlng=39082339,-84331749,8318659412369072249&amp;amp;sa=X&amp;amp;oi=local_result&amp;amp;resnum=2&amp;amp;ct=result"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Directions and more »&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Non-Pastoral Meeting * (silent, unprogrammed worship)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204);"&gt;Worship 10:00 am&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Alice Palmer, Presiding Clerk &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Located in Anderson Township&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Directions: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Near Beechmont Ave (SR 125) on the northwest corner of Nagel Road and Blackthorn Drive. Take I-275 to Exit 65 ("Beechmont Ave./Amelia"), go west 1.8 miles on State Route 125 (which becomes Beechmont), then north 0.6 miles on Nagel Road.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Regular activities:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Children's First Day School begins at 10:15 AM (Children sit with adults for the first 15 minutes of worship.)&lt;br /&gt;Monthly Meeting for Business&lt;br /&gt;4th Sunday 11:00 am&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h2 class="title"&gt;About Quakers&lt;/h2&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Quakers--also known as Friends--are a dynamic, diverse religious body, with a rich history and vibrant communities around the globe.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;There are about &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;360,000&lt;/span&gt; Quakers in the world: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total members 358,923 (U.S.87,022), by continent:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Africa = 43%&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;North America = 30%&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Caribbean and Latin America =17%&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Europe and Middle East =6%&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Asia-West Pacific = 4%&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(From FWCC - Friends World Committee for Consultation)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Quakers are a protestant denomination&lt;/span&gt; originating in England during the mid-1600s, officially known as the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers). &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most Friends churches or Quaker meetings (local congregations) are designated as &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Pastoral &lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;or&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;Non-Pastoral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;; they may also be called &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Programmed &lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;or&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;Unprogrammed&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Pastoral Meetings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; have a paid pastoral minister, and worship is conducted with some advance planning (programmed). Worshippers may sing hymns, have a children's lesson, hear a scriptural or other inspirational reading, listen to a prepared message from the pastoral minister or a guest speaker, make an offering to support the work of the meeting (gift or contribution), and/or engage in a period of silent worship (see below). &lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;Non-Pastoral Meetings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; have no paid pastoral ministers, and worship is conducted with no advance planning (unprogrammed). Worshippers sit in silent worship or "waiting upon the Lord" (prayerful meditation), and anyone present may be led to speak out of the silence (vocal ministry). Friends in these meetings may sing hymns, share joys and concerns, or make an offering (gift or contribution) before or after worship.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Both types of Quaker meetings&lt;br /&gt;are focused on fostering community and&lt;br /&gt;respect for the dignity of each individual.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;Founder George Fox said, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;"Walk cheerfully over all the earth, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;answering to that of God in everyone."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Friends value cooperation, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;encourage careful listening, and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;celebrate the contribution of each person, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;regardless of one's background or social status&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(e.g., age, gender, race, nationality, ethnicity, education, etc.). &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;Friends are open to the leading of the Inward Light or the Holy Spirit (continuing revelation). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Quaker meetings offer many opportunities for members and attenders to participate in creative, recreational and social activities&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;--including but not limited to religious education, spiritual development, service and ministry--with room for all to grow in leadership.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;There are four main branches of Friends (Quakers) in North America (see links on left sidebar).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"&gt;Quaker meetings in the Cincinnati area are affiliated with two of these branches:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.fgcquaker.org/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;FGC - Friends General Conference&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.fum.org/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;FUM - Friends United Meeting&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Two other branches are found elsewhere:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conservative Friends &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;EFI - Evangelical Friends International&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To learn more about Quakerism, contact one of the three Friends (Quaker) meetings above&lt;/strong&gt;--any of the contacts listed would be happy to answer your questions and describe their congregation's style of worship!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Quakers are perhaps best known for their &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;Testimonies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;, or ways of living their faith in the world. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These historial commitments include: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;peace, &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;simplicity, &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;community, &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;equality, &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;tolerance, and &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;integrity.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.quakerfinder.org/faq.php"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&amp;gt; Click here for FAQs - Frequently Asked Questions about Friends (Quakers)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Check out the websites of all three local Friends meetings.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Explore the links on the left sidebar to find more about Quakers in the Greater Cincinnati metropolitan area and the wider world! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;See below for Quaker quotes and more notices of upcoming events.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.quakerfinder.org/"&gt;&amp;gt; If you do not live in the Greater Cincinnati metro area and would like to find a Quaker meeting near you, click here to use the QuakerFinder. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#FF0000;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#FF0000;"&gt;Quakers and Weddings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Quakers have distinctive ways of celebrating weddings, and Friends marriage ceremonies usually include:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="  border-collapse: collapse; font-family:arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li style="margin-left: 15px; "&gt;an open time of sharing (either before or after vows): for anyone to rise and speak out of a period of silence, sharing a reflection about why the couple is special to them, giving a brief message of encouragement or advice, reading a poem or singing a song.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li style="margin-left: 15px; "&gt;Quaker wedding certificate: everyone present signs it, from the oldest to the very youngest, and it's a lovely memento to keep framed in the home. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Most importantly,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 30px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:georgia;"&gt; due to the testimony of equality, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: normal; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Quakers believe that the couple "marries" one another; nobody "marries" them. The couple are the active protagonists in the story of their own wedding. Among unprogrammed Friends, the couple may simply rise during the open worship and exchange vows without any introduction or prelude, and without a facilitator such as a pastor or minister. Some Friends do have pastoral ministers, but even if the worship is programmed, there is usually a period of open worship grounded in silence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Members of Friends Meetings who wish to marry will undergo a "Clearness Process," meeting several times with a committee of trusted Friends to share about their plans to wed, and seeking "clearness" (with one another and before God) for the marriage. The clearness committee facilitates their listening to one another and may help guide the questions they are exploring with one another. The Friends Meeting may play a large or small role in hosting the party that follows the wedding, and in keeping with the Quaker testimony of simplicity, many Friends request that no gifts be given, or they have a very simple reception, such as a potluck meal.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Here are links for some brief online material describing Quaker resources and traditions relating to marriage and weddings: &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 40px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-width: initial; border-color: initial; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "&gt;1) From the unprogrammed (non-pastoral) perspective:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.fgcquaker.org/library/welcome/fa-weddings.html" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 204); "&gt;http://www.fgcquaker.org/&lt;wbr&gt;library/welcome/fa-weddings.&lt;wbr&gt;html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) From the programmed (pastoral) perspective:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.fum.org/QL/issues/0006/marriage.htm" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 204); "&gt;http://www.fum.org/QL/issues/&lt;wbr&gt;0006/marriage.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Many faiths and Christian denominations offer retreats for couples (e.g., Marriage Encounter or Engaged Encounter). Quakers have a form of Marriage Enrichment: &lt;a href="http://www.fgcquaker.org/traveling/couples/index.html" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 204); "&gt;http://www.&lt;wbr&gt;fgcquaker.org/traveling/&lt;wbr&gt;couples/index.html&lt;/a&gt;  A Friends Meeting may offer various resources for engaged or married couples, depending upon the interests, experiences and resources of its members. Contact the meeting nearest you for more information and guidance.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1609146750739524964-3494751452667498662?l=quakersincincinnati.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://quakersincincinnati.blogspot.com/feeds/3494751452667498662/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1609146750739524964&amp;postID=3494751452667498662' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1609146750739524964/posts/default/3494751452667498662'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1609146750739524964/posts/default/3494751452667498662'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://quakersincincinnati.blogspot.com/2010/06/three-greater-cincinnati-friends.html' title='Three Greater Cincinnati Friends Meetings'/><author><name>Friends (Quakers) - Cincinnati Metro Area</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12364604443866917434</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fcwBDbX-11M/TIBeYMNLIEI/AAAAAAAAAGw/LHtS2XtJzMw/S220/25394_10150158643520230_855560229_12306466_6400422_s.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
